Are there any other guys out there that enjoy pampering themselves? I have a very aggressive, challenging and intense job during the day and when I come home I just like to relax, enjoy a hot bath, give myself a pedicure or get a massage etc. My wife hates it and thinks I don’t play a manly enough role at home. I workout, hunt, watch and play sports etc…but I just don’t have any desire to be sexually aggressive with her. I just happen to find the things women do to relax, more relaxing than the things men commonly do to relax….and having initiate sex is just not relaxing to me. Does anyone else feel the same way?
Male Pampering?
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ITS HARD FOR MAN TO BE TRUE ABOUT THAT ANSWER. EVEN IF THEY THINK SO I DO NOT THINK THEY GONNA SAY SO.
If you don’t have any desire to be sexual with her and she’s not into passionate love making then NO PROBLEM but most women like to BE PAMPERED in a loving sexual way UNLESS their hormones are screwed up. Are yours screwed up? Had your testosterone checked at the Doctors office lately? How old are you anyway? Most women reach their sexual peak in their late thirties, early forties and even later in life. I think it depends on who turns them on. It takes two to create sparks. If one does the flirting ALL the time, eventually the flame will die and she will move on. One likes to be pampered whether it be MALE or FEMALE. Just remember that dude !