I am very frisky and find that i am often the one who starts sexual acts with him but often he just isn’t in the mood. A week ago i was searching on the computer and had to look through the history to find a page a had been on earlier for a research project for school. I found huge amounts of porn from that day on the history and searched back and found he on average looks at porn at least every 3 days usually when i am asleep or right before i get home from my daily afternoon workout. I am more than willing to have sex with him whenever including sexy scenarios that I make up to spice things since we have been together for so long. When ever we have sex he just gets the job done ( for himself) and no longer finishes me like he use to when we first started dating. I feel like he no longer cares about my needs. I am consistently the more creative one in bed including frequent BJs to make sure he is satisfied, yet he finds a need to masturbate. I feel jealous when i see he looks at these other girls even though i am a very fit athlete (train twice a day) with curves and am afraid he no longer is interest in me because we have been together for such a long time . I am afraid he is board of me. I realize men need their alone time every once in a while but i feel every three day or less is too frequent. It bothers me so much that lately i can’t even enjoy sex because i feel he is thinking about those other girls. Should I feel so insecure? Should I find someone who finds me more attractive?
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its normal don’t worry
i’m not reading all that srry (it’s just too long)
but it could be he’s just very horny n rathers do it on his own sometimes instead of making u his sex slave
in fact i think he’s showin u respect
teen girls plz?
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Tlk to him
I do not think that is really necessary for him to be doing. It’s overkill.
yes, find someone who will appreciate you and your sexy body…
like ME!
Sounds to me like you are being insecure because you feel the relationship may have stalled. You should talk to your boyfriend about meeting your needs.
However, guys masturbating to porn is usually nothing to be concerned about. Are you more upset he wants “solo” time or that he watches other women while having solo time? You could have sex with him 10x’s a day and he most likely still masturbate.
My girlfriend has no choice for sex. Shes attached to the radiator, however, I constantly pleasure myself regardless when not in dank basement with her. Laundrymat-pleasure self. Post office-pleasure self. Dentist-pleasure self. Everywhere I go I end up pleasure self.
Usually I bring blanket with me so people do not notice.
dat is not normal @ all.. any man that would rather jack off than get sex or some becky is stupid… i will tell him to his face to… if u was my woman we would b havin fun all da time… u need to leave him if dats the case… obviously he has MS. RIGHT!!!!!! lol.. but seriously if u not satisfied y stay? the purpose in life is to be happy not miserable.. don’t over work yourself for no satisfaction… so u r right to feel that way and u aren’t insecure… and i vote for finding someone that will get the job done… it takes 2 ppl to have sex and both should enjoy and not one
get a cute bra or something. figure it out on ur own. you had too much information.
make him get you off first then ask him if would rather Jack o&&
Please break-up with him
I wouldn’t be so concerned with the porn/masturbation, but I would be with the lack of interest he seems to display when making sure he is pleasing you. I would suggest that you talk to him about that. You could kind of hint and see if he gets the clue. Suggest things that you really like him to do or tell/ask him about something you like that he does (kissing you on the neck, oral sex, biting, spanking, whatever you are into, etc). If you really want to be serious, tell him you think he’s been lacking in the sex department for you. You shold be conformtable enough to talk about some of this since you live together.
To me, I don’t find porn to be a big issue, but maybe that’s because I tend to look at it more than my husband. As long as he is pleasing you (which it doesn’t seem he is) and into you, the porn/masturbation shouldn’t be a big deal. You say that you are attractive, so you shouldn’t necessarily feel intimidated, but you do need to get him to spend more time pleasing you. I don’t necessarily look at porn all that often, but I do tend to masturbate about once every two to three days and my husband and I still sleep together every day or every other day. This works for us. If it bothers you, try talking to him about it. Casaully ask him what he thinks about porn or masturbation and how often he thinks a person should do it in a healthy relationship. You could always ask him for advice on a ‘friend’. I read off questions from Yahoo Answers to my husband from time to time to get his opinion, you could use that as a pretense to ask him.
find someone that appreciates you. Everybody deserves somebody to respect them and he obviously doesn’t respect you.
No, its not normal by any means. My wife and I have been together for not than 25 years and I still desire to pleasure her every day and/or nite! Both of us still strive to satisfy each other so no complaints there. Before u go looking for your satisfaction somewhere maybe u could ask him what makes those porn chicks more desirable than u… I’m on ur side babe, good luck!
its normal for a guy to masturbate even if you are willing to have sex with him instead. A guy gets his satisfaction from having sex and they also get satisfaction from masturbating. Being in control of thier sex organ and fantasizing about anything they want. Don’t worry about it. At least he is not stepping out on you. masturbation is natural for a guy to do.