Keep in mind im in my early mid 20′s and they are in there mid-late 40′s and they dont have any kids.
So heres the deal, They live right across the street from me this woman is like his 2nd wife and shes European decent due to her accent. shes ok looking i guess. Right now Im Pretty athletic looking, before i used to be over weight. And I wanted to change that so I started working out, running around the neighborhood going to the gym lifting weights and after a year and some odd months I went 310lbs over weight to 210lbs with lean muscle. Til this day I still run around hood, and i notice the wife looking at me in “that way” when i passed their house. But i didnt think nothing of it, i thought she thought of how much weight i lost and how i kept my workout routine going for so long. But apprently thats not all she was thinking about. I was washing my dad’s car one day, and my neighbor comes up, and congratulates me on my accomplishment and continued to tell me that both him and his wife noticed me running and lossing weight and so on. So we talking and stuff and he starts asking me personal questions like if I was seeing anyone and or if i had any girlfriend(s) or whatever. Of course I tell him I dont. So then he proceeds to tell me “ok im not trying to ruffle you up in anyway possible, but giving of you african-american decent, do you feel you have a substantial package?”I ask him why does he want to know? But he tells me he is not the only one who wants to know, turns out his wife wanted to know aswell. He then explains that his wife has been checking me out like that. He told me how they go to swing partys, and one day she told him she wants to have “BBC” and I would be the perfect “stud” for the part. He said he could have gone to craigslist but he wants to surpise her with me instead becuase of how highly him and her both talk about me. What should I do?
Shes is not that bad looking at all, shes has that nice tall and slim sort of say look, and no my neigbor is not my friend.
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I say give it to her hard tardis! And youre getting paid for it too?
Wow that broad must be somewhat frumpy and disease infested. Wear a jimmy cap for sure.
no way hosea..dont do it
tell her you are waiting for the right woman or some excuse
If she is hot yeah do it. but if she is nasty no.
wow that is screwed up haha
Get her to submit to an STD test first and show you the results.
Wear a condom.
Take pictures.
He is your friend, I don’t think it is morally right…..to take the money.
I did not read your whole post, too long! But just by reading the headline I would say NO WAY
Pass it up. You already knew that answer.
You don’t know him that well, surprise, he may want you to do more than wifey.
First off, if they are swingers, they both are into “doing” other people. They have sex just for the hell of it. Plus, do you want to be the neighborhood booty call? What if you get a girlfriend, and this couple talks? Sounds a bit gross to me.
I think he wants to do you too!
Stay away from these two. They’re racist and using you for your, um, skin color and, er, size. They could accomplish the same thing with ANY interchangeable guy with the “right” skin tone. No matter how much they pay you, it’ll cost you in the end. You’ll lose some part of your self respect.
Dude, that is wild…What is it about middle aged white guys that can’t get past festishizing the idea of a well endowed black man having sex with their woman? I can promise you there is no risk that she will fall in love with you or that this will screw up their marriage. They look at you as an object of pleasure… both for him and her. Provided you don’t mind seeing yourself the same way, and you don’t have a hangup about him watching or possibly jumping in afterward, it might be a lot of fun. If you’re horny and you need some extra coin, go for it.
if she is fine bang her. wear a jimmie
You should tell him no because that isn’t your friend to ask you or any one else to have sex with his wife. How do you know that she likes swingers party’s? He is a jerk for doing that to his wife.
How highly they talk about you? I don’t think went higher than in between your legs.
Now, seriously, if you don’t have a problem of doing it, is your entirely decision, no one will tell you what to do or not to do. You are grown enough.
On the other hand if the couple goes to swing parties, its their option and choice. But how can someone call you “stud”? they look at you as a bull trophy!
BUT :
If you do it, then don’t have remorse nor changing your route while exercising.
If you don’t do it don’t began thinking what if I?
If you do it, do it by your own choice.
I know a case when I used to live in another state about a similar offer but from a wife to a girl. She didn’t accept it and they began harassing her and things like that. At the end she move to another neighborhood.
If your choice and your decission sweet heart.
First off, I wouldn’t do anything like that for money. It makes you look cheap and technically makes you a “hooker”. But if you are interested, consider doing it for free. Swingers lead a very different life style that is difficult for non-swingers to understand. But what you say seems perfectly normal from their stand point. He is probably telling you the absolute truth. He is not only ok with you having sex with his wife, but he may very well want to join in so if you do agree make sure you have the ground rules set. The things you have to ask yourself are 1- Is this the lifestyle that you choose for yourself? 2- Can you look at this couple again as they live across the street without feeling uncomfortable 3 – Are you willing to become more than a one time partner as you 2 are geographically very close and a second, third, fourth romp wouldn’t be hard to pull off. This is when swinging becomes sneaky and behind the husband’s back it becomes volatile. Check your moral compass and see what you’re willing to tolerate.
Think about the aftermath..so you do it and get the money..then what? can u forget about it and still have your self respect? eventually you’ll find someone u love and be honest with them..is something like this something your proud of and dont mind people knowing? are you willing to live with a possible STD? google STD images and imagine you ended up with that. Is it worth it?
Dont ask what people think everyone has their own opinion and doesnt necessarily make it right. Your neighbors are only thinking about themselves and their best interest not yours. Ask yourself what is in your best interest not just short term but long term. Do not feel pressured into doing something you do not feel comfortable with. But i really hope you dont go threw with it because am scared for you being promiscuous or having sex with people you dont really know could end up ruining your life if not by disease some other way. Please think carefully before you make your decision. Best of luck.
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well; dead men dont need money; he setting up up
It is up to you. As far as you think you will, you can enjoy it and they like it. You are not hurting anyone.